by Gavin Gray
The Restoration Herald - Aug 2025
How to Be Happy
August 10, 2025
1 Corinthians 6:12-20 NASB
Background of Text
Paul, in this passage, challenges us to think deeply about our bodies, our freedom, and our unity in Christ. Paul writes to a divided and morally confused church in Corinth, reminding them, and us, that while “all things are lawful,” not all things are beneficial. He addresses how our personal choices, especially regarding our bodies, impact not just ourselves but the body of Christ as a whole.
Paul speaks boldly about sexual immorality to realign the Corinthians’ understanding of who they are: temples of the Holy Spirit, members of Christ’s body. This is not just about personal holiness; it is about communal identity and unity. What we do with our bodies reflects and affects the unity of the church. We are not our own; we were bought at a price. As we begin today, let us not just focus on the personal implications of Paul’s words. Let us reflect on how our choices, our purity, our priorities, and our pursuit of holiness strengthen or weaken our unity with one another in Christ. Let us listen with open hearts to how God is calling us to live, not just individually but together as one body, marked by love, shaped by grace, and committed to bearing one another’s burdens in faith.
Verses 12-13
One of the issues Paul deals with here is believers having a misunderstanding of freedom in Christ. Verse 12 seems to imply one of the responses Paul was receiving to this is “I have the right to do anything I want.” Paul responds to this misuse of Christian liberty by pointing out that even if that was true, that does not mean that this is what is best for you. As Christians we don’t have the freedom to sin; we have freedom from sin. God has labeled certain practices as sin because they hurt us, not because He is some uncaring dictator. We must be careful not to let sin dominate us.
Paul then addresses another idea that goes along the lines of “just as food satisfies the stomach, sexual immorality satisfies the body, making it permissible.” Paul disproves this point in verse 13 by distinguishing what can be categorized as Christian freedom and what is sinful. He points out that in this life we can make decisions about what we eat freely, but our bodies are also to be given unto the Lord, not given to fornication. Desire for something does not remove the commands of God that should govern our decisions. We must learn to practice restraint.
Discussion Question: Why is the attitude of “I can do whatever I want” dangerous for a Christian?
Verses 14-16
Paul continues addressing sexual immorality within the Corinthian church. He begins by pointing out that not only did God raise up His Son but also all the saints will be raised up to receive a new body when Jesus returns. Every Christian who is raised up on that day makes up the body of Christ, the church (Colossians 1:18). Paul uses this idea in verse 16 by quoting Genesis 2:24 to make the point that whenever someone is joined together in an intimate way, they become one flesh. This shows we cannot be one flesh with a prostitute and be one flesh with Christ. We need to flee immorality if we want to remain in the body of Christ.
Discussion Question: What other things must we flee as part of the body of Christ?
Verses 17-18
Whenever we sin, there are two results brought about: guilt and sickness. For example, if someone wrecks a car while driving under the influence, they not only have to deal with the law and go to court (guilt); they also have to deal with whatever injuries they bring upon themselves like a broken limb (sickness). Sexual immorality definitely fits in this category. Not only do we break God’s law, which brings guilt upon us, but also our body now suffers from the physical consequences of this sin. Whenever we give into sin, we are feeding it and allowing the impulses of it to grow stronger within us. It becomes harder to break these habits as we keep allowing them to take a hold in our life. We must “flee immorality” just as Joseph fled from Potiphar’s house (Genesis 39).
Discussion Question: What are steps we can take to help break the hold of sin in our lives?
Verses 19-20
Our bodies are no longer our own when we give our lives to God. In Genesis 28, God promised to give Jacob the land of Luz and Jacob made the decision to give it right back to God by renaming the place Bethel, meaning the house of God. In the same way, God has gifted us with life and a body, and when we decide to become a Christian, we make ourselves a home of the Holy Spirit (Romans 8:11). Jesus had to pave the way for this to happen by the spilling of His precious blood (Acts 20:28). The body of Jesus had to be broken before we could glorify Him with our bodies by living a holy and pure life with the guidance of the Holy Spirit.
Discussion Question: What are some ways that we can give back to God the blessings He has put upon us?
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